You’re never Aging, You’re BECOMING.
In every moment, you are BECOMING! … It’s an ageless fact. And in those moments, you always have a choice.
1- To become who you think or THEY think you’re supposed to be.
2- Or become more your authentic self.
“Neither one is wrong… because it’s your choice. And you can change your mind at any time. Even do it in baby steps if that suits you better.”
It’s interesting, over and over I meet women our age … that have been through so many things over the years that it’s challenging when they get a chance to think about…what they want. They have been in moving forward or survival mode for so long they have forgotten what lights them up.
Who are they without what they do for others, their jobs? What did “they” want before? Then add in all the pressure of the media telling them to follow their desires… and reclaim or be the “authentic you.” It’s overwhelming.
What I’ve learned:
Knowing & Reclaiming …is not a singular act. But rather a collection of actions & choices you make at any given time as you feel comfortable. The messiness of human existence will always be a challenge… The reality is it’s never a one time deal.
So keep at it … choose from what you know NOW. And if NOW doesn’t work, then choose another NOW…
You are PERFECTLY on the right step… in the right place…wherever you are on this journey. So if you want to add more, be more, do more DO It! But do it in your own time.
& Never give up till you’re 100% satisfied.
XX Kathy